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In a world filled with hype and over-promise, here we go again….. many of us have seen by now the newest multi-level company that has developed a patent pending miracle cream that is  “better than Botox – Botox in a bottle.”  In fact, using this cream for only 30 days will give you the same results as a face lift.  It will erase your wrinkles, age-spots and pay your mortgage if you harass, er um…I mean convince all of your family, friends, colleagues and random strangers on the street to join your team.  There are postings all over social media of side-by-side before and after pictures promoting this new miracle product, and the results depicted are nothing less than amazing.  If you were to believe your eyes, you would think that this  magical elixir will erase twenty years in a matter of minutes.  I will break down what you need to know so that you are educated before you are contacted by your neighbor or someone you haven’t talked to in 13 years that suddenly finds you on Facebook and wants to meet for coffee…..oh and talk about the new amazing business they are apart of that has changed their life.

The fact is that 86% of people use skin care products that are not suited for their skin type.  In my consultations, a vast majority of women tell me they have ‘sensitive skin.’  It usually  turns out, their ‘sensitive’ skin is of  their own doing.  It really is imperative to have a consultation with a skin care professional who is trained in skin care to help you establish a regime and pick the proper products customized to your skin.  Now, let’s talk about buying skin care products from your multi-level-marketing friends.  Maybe  there are a few of them who are trained in skin histology and have real skin care knowledge selling these products honestly.  However,  the majority are trained on a business model which employs the direct-sales marketing concept and don’t have a clue about realistic results with a topical.  Or anything else about effective skin care.  In fact, on social media I have seen posts repeatedly that say, “Don’t have any interest in skin?  That’s ok!  You will love the 6 figure salary pouring in while working from home being your own boss!  Contact me today to see how I’ve done it.”

Besides having no genuine interest in actual skin health, these sales people do not mention that what they are selling are not medical grade products.  It’s important to note that even medical grade products could NOT deliver shown results.  These home based products are not controlled by the FDA so they are formulated in a way that does not allow for penetration beneath the surface layer of the skin.  They are OTC (over the counter) products and do not treat skin conditions that results in the obvious signs of aging (loss of collagen, reproduction of damaged skin which reproduces the same damaged skin after every surface skin layer is shed).  OTC products are, by definition, formulated to be used by anyone and everyone; as such, they contain only minute amounts of the active ingredients that actually treat, repair, and correct skin problem.

It is unfortunate because some of these companies have some really great products.  The disconnect is when you have sales people who are more focused on earning their Mercedes and trips to Tahiti than they are in changing your skin.  They become delusional about the results they are advertising.  These days people desperately want to look younger so they have a huge audience to capture. And many take advantage of that.  If someone still really believes in a multi level scam enough to see it they need to learn, what can this product realistically do?  What can it not do?  So far, looking at these pictures, I would say you have some really mis-informed or un-educated sales people thinking they are selling surgical procedures instead of skin care.  Or is it possible that one of the side-effects of their product is loss of integrity?

So if you are going to buy something from your neighbors it should be Girl Scout cookies; helping a girl earn her patch….that’s legit!

Check out below the ridiculous before and after they promote;

Mary used her miracle cream for less than 10 days.  She no longer has a double chin!  The product very obviously also tightened and miraculously removed all excess skin!  FANTASTIC.

Not only does the hand on the right look 40 years younger, the muscle mass has doubled in size!  I think the person on the left is actually dead, so she’s come back to life, time traveled four decades into the past and as a bonus it gave her a nice tan!

Now let’s break this down from the consumer side.  Do you look at those ads and really believe those pictures?  Really?  I asked a well-respected cosmetic surgeon in Denver his thoughts on this picture and on a cream achieving these results and this was his response, “I can get the exact same results using butterscotch pudding for her skin care regimen, if I alter the camera angle in the after pic, apply some make up, and take the before when she happens to look her worst and the after on a day that she is a bit swollen (or I could just use Photoshop and eat the pudding).”  I couldn’t have said it better.

Please don’t fall for these bogus ‘non-miracle’ creams.  There are NO miracle creams on the market.  If there were, I would obviously enroll all of my clients, set them up on auto ship and quit my job.  Lastly,  please remember that not everyone is in the skin care industry because they are educated or passionate about skin.  They are simply selling a product that has promised to make them a lot of money if they work the pyramid correctly.  They can earn cars, trips, etc.   These are the same people who will move-on in about a year to the newest, next best thing.

I am in a tight spot posting this blog because I personally know people selling this product and promoting it on their Facebook.  Pretty sure I will quickly be deleted  from their social media after this post.  However, my commitment is to you, my client.  You have trusted me with your skin, and I take that very seriously.  My job is to keep you educated and informed, and I will never compromise that, even if it means challenging people I personally know.

As always, call or message me if you have  further questions about this topic!

Lisa

Little Habit Tweeks Make A Huge Difference

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Most of us are experts at something, whether official or self-proclaimed. And whatever your skill — accounting, gardening, choosing the shopping cart with perfectly aligned wheels — it can get a little annoying when you see someone doing it incorrectly.

As a skin care expert, I see clients every day and witness the effects of skin care regimens gone wrong. Bad products, outdated advice, lazy habits — all of which translate to a less-than-perfect complexion. Now, of course I know that you, my compliant patient,  don’t have these bad habits but some people do.  So let’s discuss, them.

Lying on Your Patient History Disclosure;  this is a tool for me to give you the best treatment possible and avoid any dangerous situations; allergies, medications, reactions, etc.  It is not used as a judgement tool.  Don’t hide or be embarassed of anything.  Yes it’s helpful to know if you are on your period, taking anti-depressants, pregnant, have herpres, etc.  Things you wouldnt imagine would, do impact your treatment.  Oh and the “how many alcoholic beverages do you consume daily?”   Again not judging—If your skin is really dehydrated and you can’t get enough moisturizer on your face, sometimes you need a reminder that if  you drink far  more ounces of alcohol than water daily….you can’t blame your moisturizer for drying you out.  Switch that habit …and problem solved!  By the way,  I have been to many of your parties, telling me you drink two glasses of wine a month ‘socially’…..well nevermind, I put that on all of my forms too.

Not Using Medical Grade Products; You may boast a beauty arsenal that rivals the local drugstore, but your lotions and potions may not all get along. Ingredients in different products can “fight” each other, negating their powers or causing skin irritation when used together.  For instance, Benzoyl peroxide and alpha hydroxy acids may deactivate retinoids, so don’t layer them.  Bring your products in to me and we can go through them together to make sure you are using the correct products together for optimal results.  The procedures we do in the office make a big difference.  However, what you do at home twice a day, everyday, has the most impact.
Not Washing Your Face at Night – EVERY Night;  Between touching your face throughout the day and being exposed to elements in the air, your face may be one of the dirtiest parts of your body by nightfall.  YUCK. Need I say more?
Using Soap to Wash Your Face;  Bar soap is formulated for the body, not the face, and our body skin is not the same as our facial skin. You’ve heard of pH, but you probably have no idea what it even means. It stands for ‘potential hydrogen,’ and when skin is healthy, it is pH balanced. Likewise, unhealthy skin is a byproduct of a pH level too high or too low. In this case, using a skin-stripping bar soap renders the pH level of the skin too high, making it alkaline, since the protective lipid barrier of the skin is disrupted. Let me break it down for you a little further: the skin is seriously dehydrated due to moisture loss from the stripping factor of the soap. So this can not only cause dry skin, but also will aggravate skin conditions such as eczema and rosacea. Not a pretty picture.
In the end, the key to flawles skin is really up to you!
Lisa

Did you include your skin on your spring cleaning list?

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Hey~  Your Epidermis is showing-all 20 square feet of it!  Are you keeping it in tip top shape?  As the days get longer and temperatures begin to climb, off with the boots and on go the sandals.  But while you may be loving the spring air, it’s likely your skin still has the winter blues.  You could be battling breakouts, sun damage, dryness, irritation, unwanted hair, or all of the above.  Nothing is worse for skin than a long, cold winter.  Want the good news? You grow nearly 1,000 new layers of skin throughout your lifetime, so you’ve got plenty of chances to make sure it’s smooth and glowing.  Come in for a current skin analysis, follow my recommendations and your skin will look so great you’ll want to walk around naked (but don’t!  Unless you have on your sunscreen….).

See you soon!

Lisa

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May is Melanoma Awareness Month

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Every May I make sure my clients have scheduled their annual skin check with their Doctor and I urge everyone reading this to do the same.  A common misconception is that you cannot die from skin cancer and the fact is that one person dies from melanoma almost every hour.  So what are you waiting for?  Make your apppointment this month.  Oh, and don’t strip for just anyone!  I’m sure you love your trusted doc however, Dermatologists really are who you need to see for a skin check. Their accuracy rates are significantly higher in identifying abnormal skin growths than primary-care physicians.

Keep me posted on your appointments!

Lisa

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Did I Mention Vellus?

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Hello All!

Long time no blogging….I have settled into my new office and have a very full schedule.  Most of you pre-book your appointments before you leave so, if you’re not currently doing so I highly recommend it!  As you may recall from a previous blog post – someone, er um, Stacie, couldn’t get in to see me because she waited until the absolute last possible minute and went and got her face chopped up moonlighting.  In all seriousness, thank you all for sticking with me during this transition.  Oh, and speaking of that, thank you also for all of your kind feed back lies regarding my video performance on YouTube.  What was that?  I mean, who was that?  I was so shy and nothing that I wanted to say came out except the word ‘vellus’  over and over and over.  I was so over come with stage fright….and vellus.   Back in the day I wanted to be a news anchor–  seems like my career plan change was a good thing.  Today a friend wanted to confirm with me that I knew that I said ‘vellus’ 75% of the time in that video.  The fact is (and what I couldn’t say) is that dermaplaning is a procedure for removing dead skin, it preps your skin for a peel and products to be able to penetrate more readily into the deeper layers of the the skin for better correction of fine lines and brown spots.  Lastly, and just to make you happy, it happens to remove all of your vellus fuzz…oh wait… you got that part!  Moving on then -

Summer is right around the corner so now is the time to come in and get a stronger peel than you typically are willing to do in the Summer. Graduation and wedding season is almost here.  Let’s make sure your complexion is glowing.

As always, thank you for everything!

Much Love,

Lisa

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Stacie is Dermaplaned…un-scathed….

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We all remember Stacie’s hilarious blog about dermaplaning.  If not, refer to the following link; http://geminigirlinarandomworld.com/2013/02/12/what-every-girl-needs-to-know-about-skin-care-and-shaving-the-fuzz-off-her-face/

Now sit back and join her at her appointment.  And then promptly schedule yours.  You look fuzzy……  seriously.

Lisa

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Facebook: Bringing People Together and Ending Relationships Since 2004.

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As many of you know and I openly admit,  I have committed all of these Facebook annoyances I’m about to talk about at one time or another. I  feel that I have matured in my social media ways and am ready to talk about how truly annoying Facebook can be.  Let’s discuss the narcissism and strangeness it brings out in people,  and the good stuff….

Here we go ~

The check-in-

Let me start this blog by admitting that I was ‘this’ person at one time that I am now writing  about.  The person that ‘checks in’ at  every location they enter.  Example, the gym (like anybody really cared that I was working out for the 24th time that week)  Well….that’s a lie, I rarely work out twice a week  but you get my drift.  Or, ‘checking in’ at the hair salon. What?  You don’t want to know that I’m getting my grey hair touched up for the third time this week?  For those of you who aren’t on Facebook – ‘checking in’  is posting to the universe exactly what location you are at and writing a commentary above it, for example; People actually ‘check-in’ at home and say something like,  “Back to the -#HaighHouse and contrary to the BS Folgers has been feeding us for years, the best part of waking up is actually going back to sleep. Goodnight.”  And then 102 of this person’s closest friends ‘like’ the check-in and status.  Now, to be totally honest, I do still check in occasionally.  I had dinner with Aimee at Flemings last night and decided that yes, the world may want to know that I am eating a steak with my OC bestie and that you would all certainly want to see our picture as well.  See, I still have my moments also.

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Vague-booking – Another pet peeve of mine is the intentional vague Facebook status update, that prompts friends to wonder what in the world is going on with you.

Example status;

Lisa is;  “wondering if it is all worth it and thinking that was a bad idea”
Causing very concerned Facebook friends to call and ask each other,  “Have you talked to Lisa? She’s vague-booking again. I haven’t seen her ‘check-in anywhere in a while.  I better ‘poke’ her and see if she responds.

The bikini shot – If you are over, lets say 25 years old,  Please do  not post a picture of yourself in a bikini.  It makes all of us feel UN-comfortable, I don’t care how many ‘check-ins’ at the gym, hard work and dedication got you your bikini body.  If you are a grown woman posing in a  bikini for solicited ‘likes’ —- I will assume you are going through a mid-life crisis.

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‘liking’ your own status -  That is sort of redundant don’t you think?  We already know that you think you’re hilarious, you posted it, remember?  Liking your own status is the equivalent of high-fiving yourself in public.  True story.  (Yes, I did like my own post last night…I’m a high-fiver)

Changing your relationship status – I have seen in a 24 hour period, let’s say Bob, going from ‘married to ‘single’ to ‘it’s complicated’ to ‘single.  Really Bob?  All of your Facebook  friends now know that you are  actually just ‘un-stable’.  Vague-booking usually follows the relationship status change….

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Drunk-booking - I would urge you to stop this, but it’s just such great entertainment.  So carry on…

On a more serious note,  Facebook is commonly used to intentionally hurt people.  People say and do some pretty crappy  things over Facebook because it’s easy to hide behind the computer screen.  This actually just happened to me last week by someone I once considered a dear friend, and I was devastated when it was brought to my attention. I will not repeat the story, that would be stooping to her level.  Although, many of you already know about this incident because  you called me after I was vague blogging about it…..

I’m joking about most of the above annoyances.  This is America…if you want to like your own status, that’s awesome. If you want to take pictures of your food and post them, I will even throw you a ‘like’.  Food is good.   Sometimes it’s great when people ‘check-in at a place so that you know where not to go :-) There really are many great aspects of Facebook.  Keeping in touch with family and friends, re-connecting with people you would have never found, new connections, sharing pictures. I have found Facebook to be fabulous for business, etc., but, it has also made me really aware at just how narcissistic it can make people. Remember, many people only post the good stuff.  “Just came back from a 15 mile run, having my 10 closest friends over after I do some quick yoga poses to talk about our trip to Sedona while sipping champagne all night.  Life is good.”   Leaving us readers thinking, Wow, my life sucks…I’m at home alone, heating up old chili and hoping a good Lifetime movie is on tonight. Social media posts aren’t always an accurate version of  one’s life .  On Facebook people can be whoever they choose to be.  Most people don’t talk about the un-glamorous stuff —unless they’re vague-booking about it.

I think most of us are guilty at one time or another of saying things on social media we shouldn’t have.  I know I am.  I keep telling my Doctor I have Tourette’s syndrome and he has said it’s actually just a case of ‘no filter’.

We all need to be more careful because words can do a lot of damage and remember, this is the internet, once you put it out there — there is never a chance to take it back.

By the way, are you following me on Facebook?

http://www.facebook.com/pages/Exclusively-Skin-Denver-Colorado/370936441768?fref=ts

Lisa

Oh and we never talked about the ‘hash tag’ on Facebook.?  #Monday#Mondaynight #sad #wine #lonely #Lifetimemovie#loveyourself# =   SAY WHAT????

Be careful speaking for the next five days -your words are not your friend, Aquarius.

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I have been toying all day on whether to do a post or not….last night in bed I was messing around on my computer and my horoscope came to my email.  I’m not sure how I got on this list.  I never read horoscopes.   Except last night, on New Years Eve, trying to make it until at least 9:00.  I’m sure you are all shocked thinking I lived a glamorous life outside of seeing you at the office.  Actually, I’m certain that most of you know I always prefer pajamas and Lifetime or Bravo to being out past zero dark thirty.   Anyways, back to the horoscope.  Basically I was advised to speak as little as possible this week because everything I say is going to be completely taken out of context and severely twisted by the listener.  Ok, it actually said something more about my delivery and how much it  will— suck.  To watch my mouth because the likely hood of offending others is super high right now.  That being said, I apologize for anything in advance that might offend you in this blog.  However, I have a valid excuse, my planets are not aligned correctly.  I can control many things in my life, but not my planets, people.

Today I went on my first ‘real’ run in a while and was reflecting on 2012 and what kind of year it was for me.  Quite honestly it was a pretty difficult personal and health one.  Yet as I was thinking about some of the difficult times that stick out there really did seem to be a positive in everything.  Equally woven between something challenging was also some really great stuff.   I have always been an extreme perfectionist and this year really taught me to ‘chill’ out.  Sometimes you need to be ok with things not being ok.  Many things tend to work themselves out.  Sometimes you have to sit back and let some things pass.  The last few months of 2012 were pretty awesome.  I ran my first half marathon (can you believe that all of this time a thought the 13.1 bumper stickers were for a radio station?),  I am writing a book, I met some amazing new friends and finally after four years of stalking Dr. M. ……..I joined him!  Just kidding….it was more like three years :-) and through everything I have been blessed with all of you.  I am not sure you will ever know how much blessing you bring to my life.  I love what I do and I thank you for that.

So this year be kind to yourself.  Be kind to others. Sometimes when we’re feeling fragile we forget that we’re not exclusively entitled to feelings of vulnerability, that we are not the only one with problems, everyone has their share of ‘stuff’ to deal with. While we’re feeling fragile we must bear in mind that empathy, compassion and kindness helps us and everyone else.

I look so forward to 2013 with all of you in my life.  I also look forward to my planets properly aligning themselves as soon as possible.

Happy 2013!

Much love,

Lisa

And on the tough days …..

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Party Schmarty…….

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I am that girl who HATES jewelry parties.  In-fact I don’t even really wear jewelry.  Hate it all on me.  So Last night.  I had a jewelry party.  (That’s a long story)  I also hate going to parties.  I know, I seem so out going and appear to be a social blast :) but when it gets dark at 5:30 I come home, jammy up, and the world doesn’t hear from me again until the morning.  My husband handles all night practices and activities.  Spoiled I know. Being sensitive to the fact that people have jobs, lives, kids, etc.  I generally hate hosting frivolous night parties because I myself hate the obligation.  That being said, when I decided to host this night, jewelry party, I put a quick post on Facebook and said, “Nobody feel obligated to come.  Seriously.”  (I know that you’ve just decided I am not ever hired to be your party planner)  That’s fair.  So let’s get back to my party.  Last night not only did all of my loyal friends stop everything in their busy lives to come, we had a blast.  I had friends come on the way to the airport, anniversary dinners, between kids practices, friends that lived nowhere even near me showed up.  And none of it had anything to do with jewelry.  My girlfriend Aimee, said it best,  ”When a friend hosts something you show up and represent.”  Well that my friends, you all did.  We shared cocktails, memories, solved the debt ceiling, laughed,  opened nice champagne and there was also some jewelry.  Today my heart is full and I pray that I am always as supportive and amazing to you as you are to me.  I, without a doubt, have the best friends.  Thank you for that. Oh and by the way….there’s about 5 of you that may need to be reminded this morning that we all committed to run the Phoenix marathon together in January…….and NO bailing out.  Spa after!